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Pausation

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A Speed of Soul Encouragement – Acknowledging Grief, Claiming Love, Remembering Radiance

In the wake of January 6th many of us are wrestling with grief, dismay, anger, racial double standard and discouragement. So today I acknowledge what is hard as stone. Lets not candy coat anything. But let us also claim that there is a stronger force, a deeper truth and a wide and active community of good hearted, decent people. Let us remind one another of all the fine and honorable people in our own lives. Let us remind ourselves of how many people got up this morning and continue to make the world a kinder place, one day, one person, three feet around them. Yesterday I wrote my legislators, and encourage others to claim agency and let their voices be heard. But I also encourage digging into what makes your life good. Howard Thurman wrote that “hope is the remembrance of radiance, the assurance that Light will be Light, even when walking in dark places.” I am gathering to myself that remembrance of radiance, the assurance that even in the aftermath of viewing the forces of shadow close up, goodness is still goodness, Light is still Light, and hope is still here and has not been hemmed in. I wrote my legislators, but I also texted a few dear friends to tell them I care, and to express that I am grateful for their presence in my life and in the world.

My encouragement today is to claim agency and to claim love. Text, zoom, call or somehow connect with someone who you think of as a treasure in your life, someone that illuminates your life, who reminds you of the power of love and the remembrance of radiance. Reach out and affirm what keeps saving us – goodness, kindness, faithfulness, gratitude, generosity, hospitality, justice and love…always love. Lay your hand on your heart and know that you also illuminate the lives of others around you. You are also doing what you can each day, in your own way, to make the world around you a kinder place.

Today we acknowledge the shadows, but we lean into the light.

~ Carrie Newcomer, Artist/Musician

A foggy, frosty morning in the woods.

pausation:  (rare)  The action of pausing; temporary cessation of activity; a pause, an intermission; to pause, to hesitate (obselete)

~ from the OED

I’ve been wishing there was a way to hit the pause button on reality for a little while.  Maybe a day or two so that everyone can retreat for a little while, and then come back with a little bit of peace in their hearts and minds.  We can, of course, do that on our own.  But it seems to me would could use a collective break from the interesting times we live in.  Since I don’t have magic powers or a magic wand to wave around, perhaps a walk on a foggy, frosty morning will do.

Sunrise.

We woke to a wintry wonderland on Monday, one of frost and fog.  It’s a beautiful combination although it can be hard on any exposed skin.  The cold settles and seeps in faster with the fog as a carrier.  I half expected to see my face covered with hoar frost when I returned to the house.

A frosty mix.

It’s unusual to see the frost climb the trees around here.  That’s pretty much what it did Monday morning.  Carried by the fog, everything had a frosty coating.

Watching the sunrise from the dock.

I’m struggling with writing this post.  That’s okay.  I think we’re all struggling, at least a little, right now and we’re struggling with things bigger than writing a blog post.  I’ll share a few things not my own, instead.  Like this pretty song by Carrie Newcomer:  Speed of Soul.

Watching the clouds rise from the water.

The stone of hope was recently shared with the Gita class I’m studying with/in.  It’s an essay by John Paul Lederach, on The Pause (part of On Being).  If you have a few moments and you haven’t already read it, it might help.  It’s honest, with hope.

The new woods.

There is an article in Lion’s Roar about Transforming Anger into Love by Thich Nhat Hanh.  I found myself smiling at the advice for practicing recognition of what you’re feeling by addressing it in some way.  In this article, it was “Hello, anger, my old friend.”  I do that frequently, address what’s there as “my old friend.”  Just by doing that, it changes.  I think that’s what our emotions want most.  Some acknowledgement that they are there.

Four crows.

There is an old legend that says we each have a wild, curious twin that was thrown out the window the night we were born, taking much of our vitality with them. If there was something we were meant to do with our few, brief years on Earth, we can be sure that the wild twin is holding the key.

~  Martin Shaw

The next link will take you to Emergence Magazine.  It is a story of The Lindworm as told by Martin Shaw.  Julie Gibbons, whose Mandala Magic course I’m taking, shared it with us as part of an assignment to draw a self-portrait she referred to as the wild twin.  I did not have the supplies I would have liked to use for this assignment, and it didn’t turn out quite as I would have liked, but I will share with you my wild twin.

I am going to try this assignment again in the future, with some masking medium and more intense colors.  The circle, or the mandala, is supposed to be a container — perhaps a safe container — for the wild twin, but I chose to let parts of her escape the circle.  It seems to me it is important, when dealing with wild creatures, that we allow them a way out if they feel they need it.

Myrtle leaves and frost.

This share is a little more on the serious side:  The Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture.  I share this because it is part of the work we need to do.  What I found particularly helpful, after seriously considering the list of characteristics, were the antidotes.

Reaching through the fog.

There is a lot happening today.  It feels like I could have used that sentence any day over the past four years during which we have rarely seen anything resembling a quiet day.  In my opinion, that was intentional, a design to wear us down and wear us out.  As always, rest when you can.  There is a lot of hard work ahead of us.

One last thing before I go.  I recently read something that I will have to paraphrase because I can’t remember who wrote it or where I read it (if it sounds familiar to you and you know who to credit, please let me know so I can insert an attribution in this post).  Basically, the theme was not to fear the roars we are hearing.  Those roars are the sound of dinosaurs, and dinosaurs make a lot of noise when they are dying.  (‘Tis a metaphor, in case that needs to be said/written.)

In the marsh.

Thank you so much for stopping by today and wandering around with me.  Let’s meet out at the Point for sunset this evening.  It’s been a clear, beautiful, bright and sunny day.  Sunset is scheduled for 5:05PM.  I’ll be there early to take a little walk before the show begins.  It’s been relatively warm today, but you’ll still need to bundle up.  It’s cold by the water.

Please be safe, be well, be kind, and do your best to live from your heart.  ♥

Stepping into the mystery.

A few of the 10,000 reasons to be happy:  1,676)  Taking the time to feel gratitude, to remember what is good in life (and sometimes what is good is not always what is easy, but it’s still good).  1,677)  M, always.  1,678)  Friends who listen deeply, and who don’t hold back.  1,679)  All the people who are doing good work.  They don’t make the news as often as some others do.  1,680)  Art journaling.  I’m really enjoying it, especially the messiness of it.  I’ve been a perfectionist for so long that’s it a relief to color outside of the lines, so to speak.

As the day brightens and warms.

Author:

Robin is a photographer, artist, writer, yoga teacher, sometime poet, wife, mom, grandma, daughter, sister, friend, and occasional traveler currently living on the Eastern Shore of Maryland. She shares her daily walks and meanders, a lot of quotes, some of her artwork, and a lot of her photography here on Ye Olde Blogge. Older posts can be found at Life in the Bogs, her previous blog. Robin and her husband are (still!) in the midst of renovating the house and cleaning up the property they refer to as the Wabi-Sabi Ranch, 35 acres that include marsh, a dock on a tidal creek, meadows, and woodlands. Every day brings new discoveries.

25 thoughts on “Pausation

  1. I love your photos…would have loved to be on that walk with you, though it was very much like the beginning of my adventure on Saturday. Frost and light. I, for one, am glad the dinosaurs are dying, may they have a peaceful transition.

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    1. Frost and light are a beautiful combination, Dawn. You go on such great adventures. I’m thinking I should emulate you and become more adventuresome. 🙂

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  2. Great opening quote and thanks for the links, Robin. I’ve taken to putting my hand over my heart A LOT this week to soothe and heal. I don’t recall ever needing it so much, even after personal loss. This feels so big, like the whole world is suffering at once. Such times we are in. The whole year (plus) has required digging deep to stay focused on the best and brightest. Every day, one day at a time.

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  3. Amazing frost photos, Robin. Hard times for so many these days…so much happening. Sending you love, sending me love, sending us all love. And love for the roaring dying dinosaurs too.

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  4. Lovely post during a trying time. Thanks. I like the dinosaur quote. I’ll interchange that with my own thoughts about the sounds of patriarchy dying. I became more enraged as the days went by after what happened. I think once we know more, there will be more anger. I’ll enjoy things like your walk and meditation, et al, to be able to channel that anger into something that does some good. At least we know we’re not alone in the fight to right the wrongs.

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    1. Thank you, Tara. 🙂 Yes, it’s good to know we’re not alone. I think you’re right about what will happen after everything comes out about what happened and who was involved. I don’t know if they realize it yet, but the Republican party, it seems to me, has been so soiled that if they had any smarts, the moderate Republicans would join up with the Lincoln Project and start a new party. Let 45 and the crazies have the Republican party and build something new.

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  5. Wonderful frosty landscapes. I have never seen anything like that in Maine. As for all that is going on…I hardly know what to say. To have both a pandemic and an insurrection or coup or whatever you want to call it is just plain wrong. I hope the roars get fainter and fainter.

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    1. Thank you, Laurie. 🙂 I agree. It’s wrong, and it’s all too much. I’m not sure people are even paying attention anymore to the fact that we’re in the midst of a pandemic. It’s taken a backseat when it should be front and center.

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  6. I found deep peace and joy in your photos – the one with the dark and light frost trees is immensely beautiful. I also acknowledge that crazy twin – she was not that popular when i was a child. but I take her out with patients as therapist
    Blessings on your soul ♥

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  7. Your photos are absolutely stunning. I haven’t witnessed that in a long time. I like that acknowledging the negative as well as the positive. They all need to voice themselves, don’t they?
    Wonderful post, Robin.

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  8. Thank you for the link to The Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture. I saved it for further review but on a glance I was most taken with “Only One Right Way.” That’s the concept I butt heads with the most often.

    I like your “my old friend” approach to emotions. Made me smile at your pragmatic way of dealing with them.

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    1. You’re welcome, and thank you, Ally. 🙂 There’s a lot of “Only One Right Way” in this world. Too much. I really don’t understand why people are so stubborn about such things other than their need to keep things the same. Life IS change. Change IS life. And now I think I’m sounding like something out of Octavia Butler’s book, Parable of the Sower.

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    1. Thank you, Frank. 🙂 My representative in Congress (Andy Harris) is one of the Sedition Caucus. I wrote to him and demanded that he resign. So have many others, including many of the state legislators. Even the governor of Maryland, a Republican, came close to saying the same thing but stopped short with some lame excuse of it not being up to him to tell Harris what to do (true, probably, but still, he could have suggested Harris resign). Writing to Harris was an exercise in futility, which I knew when I did it, but it needed to be done.

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  9. So many inspiring images–thank you. And your words resonate. I think it’s hard for those of us that want to show up in the world to deal right now because we feel so helpless. And yet we’re not. One foot in front of the other, in our own sphere of influence–I do believe it makes a difference.

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    1. You’re welcome, and thank you, Kay. 🙂 I understand that feeling of helplessness. I feel it all the time. Then I ask myself the question, “what is the next right thing?” That seems to help. As you wrote, one foot in front of the other. Baby steps, wherever and whenever we can take them.

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  10. So many gorgeous photos here, Robin! We had something of that foggy frost, too, but I must confess I refused to get outside in it to take pictures. Lazy? Perhaps, but perhaps I was just rebelling at the idea of anything taking me away from my indoor calm!

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