
How lucky country children are in these natural delights that lie ready to their hand! Every season and every plant offers changing joys. As they meander along the lane that leads to our school all kinds of natural toys present themselves for their diversion. The seedpods of stitchwort hang ready for delightful popping between thumb and finger, and later the bladder campion offers a larger, if less crisp, globe to burst. In autumn, acorns, beechnuts, and conkers bedizen their path, with all their manifold possibilities of fun. In the summer, there is an assortment of honey to be sucked from bindweed flowers, held fragile and fragrant to hungry lips, and the tiny funnels of honeysuckle and clover blossoms to taste.
~ Miss Read, Village Diary

I came across the opening quote and was reminded of my own childhood when I sipped on the nectar of honeysuckle and popped the unopened orange trumpet flowers that grew along the driveway of the home where I grew up. August was always such a hot month in those days without air conditioning, and my brothers and I were usually outside somewhere, trying to catch a breeze. The air shimmered and waved with the heat, and any little draft of air or shade from a tree was much appreciated.
August meant a refreshing two week stay at the Jersey shore, and nature provided some cool air and water as well as a vast playground for our bodies and imaginations. There was seaweed to snap and pop or weave into our hair. Sand to sink our feet into, and to turn magically into castles and mermaids and whatever we dreamed the sand could be. Shells to be looked over, collected, washed of their sea scent, and brought home where they’d get lost in the stockpile of seashells that is inevitable when there are five children combing the beach. My mother would save the big clam shells and use them as ashtrays. Since smoking didn’t seem so bad in those days (just some minor warnings on the packaging), we would sometimes paint the shells so Mom would have a prettier ashtray. I still collect shells, but most of them are collected with my camera unless it’s just too pretty to pass up and leave to the beach or to go back to sea.

A brief note: One thing I don’t get hung up on (see yesterday’s post about hang ups) most of the time are rules if I don’t see a reason to follow them (although as someone with Eldest Child syndrome, I can be a rule follower when it comes to the law and manners and things of that nature). That is especially true when it comes to the rules of photography challenges. I understand the 365 concept and what I should be doing, but I’m using the Capture Your 365 prompts (today’s is Flora) as fodder for blog posts because I want to stretch myself a little, and write about something other than walks. Maybe I’m just in the mood to tell stories, and to reveal more about myself.

Do you think that’s an age thing? That as we get older we feel almost compelled to start telling our stories? Is the telling a way to get around our mortality? A way to keep a part of ourselves here once we die? Are we trying to share our wisdom? Entertain? Or is there a part of us that wants to go back for a little while and relive some of those earlier moments in life? I believe it might be all of those things, but the last speaks to me today because I think it’s a way for us to get in touch with parts of ourselves we think we’ve left behind.

The first week of August hangs at the very top of summer, the top of the live-long year, like the highest seat of a Ferris wheel when it pauses in its turning. The weeks that come before are only a climb from balmy spring, and those that follow a drop to the chill of autumn, but the first week of August is motionless, and hot. It is curiously silent, too, with blank white dawns and glaring noons and sunsets smeared with too much color.
~ Natalie Babbitt, Tuck Everlasting

Thank you for stopping by today to look at some of the flora of the Eastern Shore. I hope you’ve had a great start to the week. The clouds that hung over us for the past few days have finally broken up, and tonight’s sunset looks like it has great potential. Let’s head to the Point to watch the show and enjoy the breeze. Sunset is scheduled for 8:09 PM. See you there!

Be good, be kind, be loving. Just Be. 🙂
Today’s joys: Morning fog and dew; the pinkish-orange color of sunrise; the way the Morning Glories open and light up at sunrise; Bo, who is getting me up early in the morning for our walks; seeing the huge black snake on the path before stepping on it (it scared the living daylights out of me, and was coiled, ready to strike, because Bo and I had gotten too close).
Perhaps with age we have a bit more time to look back and assess where we’ve been. Sharing it seems to be a natural adjunct I suppose.
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Makes sense to me, Gunta. 🙂 Time is certainly something I have more of without an outside of the home job to rush off to, and now that I have adults rather than children. I was just thinking today that it’s hard to believe my sons will be 40 and 30 next year. Yikes.
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What a wonderful sounding day you’ve had, and you caught and gave to us the essence of your childhood summers….a wonderful post with stunning photos, as always 🙂
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Thank you, Seonaid. I feel like I’ve come full circle in a way, now that I’m living near the ocean again. It’s not a bad way to end up, if I should in fact end up here. 🙂
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I share that need to share stories, to express myself. I think it is for me, in part at least, having the freedom and the time to see things in a different way, feel things in a different way, and the ability to accept me as I am. It’s very nice if you like me and what I share, but life will not end if you don’t.
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I do like you, Carol, and very much admire your attitude and your why’s for sharing your stories. I’m so glad I wrote this post as I did (I almost changed it) because I’m fascinated by and enjoying all the different reasons that crop up for telling our stories. 🙂
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Pretty flowers, Robin! Yes, I agree the stories are a way to relive the moments. I know I have told some stories multiple times. Just feels good to tell it one more time!
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Another good reason to tell our stories, Karen! Thank you. 🙂
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Sometimes our stories tell us best. I think we’re inclined to care less about what others might think of us as we age so we share our stories more easily. Our mortal beings just want to leave part of us behind. Folks who hang about to listen to (or read) our stories offer us something in return. What’s that something? I don’t know. Maybe it’s acknowledgement, acceptance, approval, authenticity, appreciation, admiration, etc. I’ll work on the somethings that begin with the letter ‘b’ another time. Telling our tales gives us a sense of belonging. Hey, that’s a word that begins with the letter ‘b’! As good a start as any.
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eM!! ❤ I love the idea that "sometimes our stories tell us best,” as well as your alphabetical foray into the maybe’s and why’s. 🙂 “Becoming” might be another good “b” word, in line with your idea that our stories tell us best. It’s a way of acknowledging where we started, the foundation of who we are and who we are still becoming, but maybe the stories themselves help us to become, again and again.
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Although I try not to dwell in the past (been doing a lot of that lately with my youngest daughter this summer!) I think stories are great for remembering the good times. If you think about it, it is kind of why we blog, isn’t it? Our blog posts are really little snippets and stories of our lives.
Great photos to go along with your story telling. I love the sunflower saying “hey you!” and your recollections about August as a child. I have similar memories – being too hot to sleep at night with no A/C and forever beach combing during our week in Maine (like you at the Jersey shore)
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Thank you, Karma. 🙂 I try not to spend much time in the past, either, but lately it seems to be cropping up a lot. I wonder if it’s because I have grandchildren and want to share with them. My youngest son takes a great interest in things of the past (he likes history, even personal histories) and spending time with him recently has influenced me greatly in terms of wanting to tell stories. And oh, how well I remember dwelling on the past when I was facing an empty nest. It helps you through, I think, so enjoy it. 🙂
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I agree, maybe need to share our stories is a combination of all those things and Karma has a good point, too … for memories, just like we gather photos together in a photo book. I would like to add one more to the list … To connect to others.
The sunflowers have such character .. the one leaning into the picture (can you picture it wrapping a leaf around the young sprout?) And, of course .. the one pointing at you (is asking “where are my googly-eyes?) 😉 … sorry to continue on the same path, every time I see them I see smiley faces.
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Great “one more,” Bearyweather!! And so true. Stories do connect us to others, and with others (because often we can relate to one another through our stories). I don’t mind you asking about the googly-eyes. I see smiley faces, too, when I look at the sunflowers. I think they all have some kind of face or personality. Yes, yes, I can picture that leaning one wrapping a leaf around the young one. 🙂
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I too think of telling my stories as an age thing, the older I get, the less I remember, in many years from now I feel I will look back on my posts and read memories I no longer recognise, I just hope I’ll be entertained by what I read. 🙂
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That’s a great reason for blogging, Sallyann. I know I use my blog to help verify things when I can’t remember if I did something or not. 🙂
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